If i stay, would things get better?
Or the other way around?
Humans have desires
We want this we want that
We want everything that others have
But have we ever think about that?
Really?
We wont always get what we want. Because things arent always meant for us.
We often blame others, we blame the people around us, we blame the surrounding.
Never, not even once, we say, it's us!
Maybe its our fault.
Look back inside us, are we truly deserving?
There are so many people out there, who deserves more than us.
But since we always get everything we want,
we became overboard.
When people started to trust with all their heart, we are the one breaking it.
Why have we become so selfish, and arrogant and greedy?
So let me ask the question again,
If I stay, would things get better?
Loss; is the returning of what never actually belonged to us in the first place.
ReplyDeleteWe must also realize that nothing happens without a purpose. Nothing. Not even broken hearts. Not even pain. That broken heart and that pain are lessons and signs for us. They are warnings that something is wrong. They are warnings that we need to make a change. Just like the pain of being burned is what warns us to remove our hand from the fire, emotional pain warns us that we need to make an internal change. We need to detach. Pain is a form of forced detachment. Like the loved one who hurts you again and again and again, the more dunya hurts us, the more we inevitably detach from it. The more we inevitably stop loving it.
[Yasmin mogahed]
Thank you so much for this.
DeleteI always ask myself. How I am going to erase the pain ? The best way is to forgive others eventho it is not our fault or in the end we may regret it.
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